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Year 2000 Entries

Date: 12/28/00
Name: George Huhn
Email: GHuhn88397@aol.com
From: Venice, FL USA
Comments:
I found this site from Todd Harrison's column on RealMoney.com and spend the better part of an hour amazed at the wealth of family and friends that Joel has. I also paused for a moment to reflect on my own mortality, and found reason to go forth and squeeze the most from each day. While I was not fortunate to know Joel personally, He will live forever in your memories...
Date: 12/27/00
Name: Shawn
Email: tturpen@zianet.com
From: NM USA
Comments:
I found this site through Todd Harrison, who wrote "do something Joel" today in his diary. I clicked on the link and have been here for a couple of hours now, learning about the closeness of this family and the amazing qualities of Joel. I will be back to visit the site often as I see a great benefit in being reminded of the important things in life. Thank You
Date: 12/26/00
Name: L
From: USA
Comments:
Miss you lots and of course, our talks, but ironically, I feel your presence always. Thanks so much for all of your guidance. Can't wait to meet you again, my angel.
Date: 12/25/00
Name: ?
Email: ?
From: USA
Comments:
I come to this site practically every time i log on. Not sure what i'm looking for, but reading the entries in the guest book and searching through the pictures, makes me feel good. You've touched so many in such different ways.
Date: 12/24/00
Name: Ricky
Email: RJPP1@aol.com
From: USA
Comments:
I am so proud to be your little brother. My heart aches I miss you so much. Like Todd, I always try to "do a little something Joel", doing anything to make this World a better place. Thank you for humbling my soul and reminding me who I am. See you when I dream! Love you, RJP
Date: 12/24/00
Name: todd harrison
Email: todd@jjcramerco.com
From: nyc, ny USA
Comments:
Brother, thinking of you a lot this time of year, and hoping that you understand that so many of us continue to 'do something joel' each day. your spirit, nature, style, friendship, and love permeate throughout our world... a testiment to how you've touched us all. I miss you pal...the world is much lonlier without you. toddo
Date: 12/20/00
Name: Helena Rushansky
Email: hrushansky@hotmail.com
From: NYC, NY USA
Comments:
wow, this website is beyond amazing! It is beautiful and touching. I never met Joel yet just seeing his picture makes me smile. I am so happy that I have met you both, Jill and Ricky you guys truly keep Joel alive! You are all so special, your friends and your family... just amazing! Much love, Helena
Date: 12/12/00
Name: Adam
Email: roc8@aol.com
From: NY USA
Comments:
Joel, it's gonna be tough without you at Gary's wedding. it seems that whenever Doug, Gary, and myself are together you are sourly missed!!!
Date: 11/09/00
Name: Ricky
Email: rjpp1@aol.com
From: USA
Comments:
What Jilly Bean had written previously are my thoughts exactly. Thinking of you every day & miss you like crazy! Love your little bro, Ricky
Date: 11/08/00
Name: Jill
Email: jill@jillpollack.com
From: NY, NY USA
Comments:
I am missing you so much Joel. I love you where ever you are... bean
Date: 11/01/00
Name: Vicky Edwards
Email: vice187@hotmail.com
From: New York, NY USA
Comments:
Dear Jill, Rich& Kenny, I just wanted to say hi to you guys and let you know that I often think of you two and Joel. Since my brother lives blocks away from Mount Ararat there isn't a time that I drive by that I don't think of all of you. I hope things are going well, I'd love to see you guys some time.
Date: 10/13/00
Name: Randi Flick
Email: Rands333@aol.com
From: Roslyn, NY USA
Comments:
Joel I think about you all the time.I miss you so much.
Date: 10/10/00
Name: timi taule
Email: tizza2000@excite.com
From: north hollywood, CA USA
Comments:
This web site is great tribute to a wonderful person. My prays to him and his very giving family. Love, The Taule's
Date: 10/02/00
Name: Pat Edwards
Email: pedwards@bwdgroup.com
From: Douglaston, ny USA
Comments:
Dear Joel; Yesterday, at Ararat, it just seemed so unfair to be able to visit you there after visiting my dad - so unjust - then I had to remind myself that you aren't there any more than he is> and where your souls are you now pray for us. It doesn't make the pain of knowing you're both gone or missing you go away. But being able to read thru this site and see how many people did really get to know the real you eases it. Vic and I think and speak of you often. Miss you!
Date: 10/01/00
Name: Jill Friedman (Leviton)
Email: jlf1164
From: Roslyn, Ny USA
Comments:
Dear Joel, What an unbelievable website from so many people who care about you. Donna Weintraub (Gansl) directed me to your site today and I am extremely moved. It brings back so many great memories. How nice to see that your life meant so much to so many people and how it helped make others feel special. I hope my boys turn out to be the type of warm, loving, giving person you were. You're sorely missed. Am thinking of you, Jill
Date: 09/29/00
Name: Dave Geller
Email: Medboy2@aol.com
From: Pine Brook, NJ USA
Comments:
Hey Big Guy, I was just thinking about you, as I do so often, so I thought I'd visit you here, where I could see your face and remember once again the many great times we had together. I miss those days, bro, and I miss you too.
Date: 09/21/00
Name: Michal Cohen
Email: Michal.s.cohen@us.pwcglobal.com
From: New York, ny USA
Comments:
I did not know Joel Pollack nor anybody that knew him. My friend told me about the website and I think it is amazing what the Pollack family has done. It really teaches people to make the most out of every moment that you have in life because you never know what the future will bring.
Date: 09/20/00
Name: Craig Woodruff
Email: cwood3@worldnet.att.net
From: Phoenix, Az USA
Comments:
Joel, I never knew you but wish that I had. I am grateful that Todd guided me to this sight. I take away the conviction that I can do more, large and small to make the world a gentler place and to try and ease the passage of those less fortunate than I.
Date: 09/20/00
Name: Toddo
Email: Todd@JJCramerco.com
From: NYC, NY USA
Comments:
Missed you in Spain Joel...it was all you...enjoyed our conversation during the sunset, and I know you did too. I am spreading your word...miss you mucho, amigo.
Date: 09/14/00
Name: Robin
Email: robin.genser@msdw.com
From: NY, NY USA
Comments:
I think about you often and want you to know that you are missed!
Date: 09/12/00
Name: Lisa Carmiris
Email: lisa@123greetings.com
From: NY, NY USA
Comments:
Its been a while since I have written to you but you should know that I think of you often. I think the most important thing that you taught me was never be afraid to tell and show people your true feelings. You never did with me! Thinking of you always puts a smile on my face and reminds me how good and loving we all can be. Thanks for your friendship and love..I carry it with me and pass it along whenever I have the opportunity. xo lisa
Date: 09/10/00
Name: Howard Gelfand
Email: hgelfand@nyc.rr.com
From: Bayside, NY USA
Comments:
I surf by this website more times than I can remember. Once in awhile I'll submit a note or just jot down my thoughts. This website has an incredible magnetism that I can only credit to Joel's spirit, that may have only been around for a short while yet burned bright while it was here on earth. Seeing his face reminds me of the incredible amount of potential some people have and never get a chance to live out. For those of us that don't live everyday to the fullest, and lose sight of the potential we all have, we should be ashamed of ourselves. I plead guilty as well. I will try and never forget how precious life is and how it may only be loaned to us for a short while, so make the best of it. Jill, Ricky, G-d bless you for the everlasting memorial you built here for your buddy, best friend and brother. It reaches more people than you'll ever know. You are one of a kind Bean!
Date: 08/27/00
Name: Denise Bailey
Email: db@cultural-concepts.com
From: New York, NY USA
Comments:
I didn't have the privilege of knowing Joel, but I am a neighbor of his brother Richard aka "Ricky". I am inspired by his family and this wonderful foundation, which is a lasting and continuing tribute to their loving son and brother, and Joel's desire to help others! Wishing you continued success!
Date: 08/23/00
Name: Doug
Email: dugkell@rcn.com
From: NY, NY USA
Comments:
On Saturday night (early Sunday morning) I found myself a passenger in a car (in of all places.. the Hamptons) and behind the wheel was a driver clearly under the influence. I put up a fight but eventually (very uncomfortably) went with the flow. Everything turned out fine except for my shame!
Date: 08/23/00
Name: Todd A. Harrison
Email: todd@jjcramerco.com
From: new york, ny USA
Comments:
Joel, just a quick note to let you know that, yes, I do feel your soul and I still try to live my life with a 'little' joel every day (sorry for the short joke). It's just not the same without you, but your loving memory brings peace and strength to my life. Had dinner with George, Michelle and Howie last night,and you were definetly there with us...as always. Love you brother...rest peacefully. Toddo
Date: 08/17/00
Name: JOAN GINSBERG
Email: jginsberg@treiberg.org
From: garden city, ny USA
Comments:
JOEL AND I HAD ALOT OF LAUGHS TOGETHER, WE WOULD SEE EACH OTHER ON THE PARKWAY AND HE WOULD CUT ME OFF AND LAUGH AND WHEN I GOT TO THE OFFICE, HE WOULD COME OVER AND ASK ME IF ANYONE CUT ME OFF ON THE WAY TO WORK AND WHEN I WOULD SAY IT WAS SOME STRANGE PERSON DRIVING LIKE A NUT, HE WOULD LAUGH ANDSAY IT WAS HIM. I MISS HIM ALOT.
Date: 08/13/00
Name: Elizabeth ("Libby") Golden- Rubach
Email: Ellerubach@aol.com
From: Closter, NJ USA
Comments:
I am a friend of Joel's from Syracuse. Seeing pictures on the screen of us from spring break, first seder and graduation brought back so many memories of the laughs and special times we all shared with Joel. I found myself staring at them for quite awhile! He was a wonderful friend, full of warmth and fun, and I see from all I have just read that he never changed a bit. He went on to build a successful life for himself, giving so much to the many lives he touched. I am particularly moved by the incredible closeness he had with his family, especially his brother and sister Jill and Ricky. I have three children of my own now and I truly hope that they will share the intense closeness and loving relationship with one another that the three of you share. Although I had not seen Joel for many years, I can close my eyes and see his smile and hear his laugh. This site was truly a wonderful way to catch up with him. Thank you.
Date: 08/11/00
Name: LARRY OSHINSKY
Email: LARRYO45@AOL.COM
From: TENAFLY, NJ USA
Comments:
JILL & RICKY : IT'S BEEN A WHILE. I HOPE YOU GUYS ARE DOING GREAT. THIS SITE IS THE MOST INCREDIBLE TRIBUTE TO MY BUDDY. SCOTTY G. AND I ALWAYS TALK ABOUT JOEL DURING OUR CONVERSATIONS. HOW GREAT IS IT TO SEE THE OUTPOURING OF LOVE & WARMTH FOR YOUR BROTHER? I'D LOVE TO HEAR FROM YOU. TAKE CARE AND KEEP IN TOUCH. LOVE, LARRY O
Date: 08/10/00
Name: Beth
Email: dmbnl777@aol.com
From: Wilbraham, MA USA
Comments:
A dear friend of mine from school knows Joel's brother. This webpage is a beautiful celebration of the life of a wonderful person. May his memory be eternal.
Date: 08/08/00
Name: Steven Reisman
Email: sreisman@cm-p.com
From: USA
Comments:
I did not know you. I was referred to your web site by an attorney who worked on the other side of a transaction with me. He knew of you and spoke highly of you. As I sit at my desk working, I have read about you and the many kind things others had to say, saw pictures of your short life and I have become sad -- because you are no longer with us. You must have been a wonderful person and I am sorry I never got to meet you. I do, however, believe that this world is a better place because of you. You have touched so many in life and in death. I am sorry for your family and friends -- they must miss you terribly. Life is not fair. Your memory will live on forever.
Date: 08/01/00
Name: Jason Krauss
Email: jason@datatone.com
From: Great Neck, NY USA
Comments:
Joel: I just ran into Ricky tonight (17 yrs. to the day we last saw one another) and all the memories of you, Jill, Ricky, and me and my brother at "Aunt Jennette's"= my grandma's house in the Woodlands in Tamarac rushed through me like a freight train and like it was yesterday. I'm so sorry so much time passed before we could rekindle the fun times we spent together in Florida, and that we never got to see one another again. I hope to see Ricky, Jill and your Mommy very soon. For sure, you know we'll be thinking off you. My Family sends you all the best. Please say hello to my Grandma, and Grandpa Mike. I miss them so much and the fun times we used to share. Until ....... Jason Krauss
Date: 07/23/00
Name: Chris
Email: quay54@aol.com
From: Hewlett, NY USA
Comments:
Joel- not a day goes by that I don't think of you and smile. Truly - You Made Our World A Better Place! Love U 4-ever.
Date: 07/08/00
Name: george
Email: renvois4@netrom.com
From: butler, nj USA
Comments:
hey joel....you were , and are , a good man....when walking down paradise alley, please say hello to my brother pete....i know that he knows that things are good, but say hi anyway!god bless you pal, and in the scheme of things, we'll all be seeing you soon enough.....keep an eye on your earthly friends! georgie
Date: 06/27/00
Name: Abby Rosin
Email: arosin@mindspring.com
From: New York, NY USA
Comments:
Dear Ricky and Jill, Your website made me cry and I didn't know Joel. Knowing you for only an hour, I am touched by what you have done. Like I said, you have created a venue for people to give, and now I see, to heal. thank you Abby
Date: 06/27/00
Name: Jill
Email: jill@joelpollack.com
From: NYC, NY USA
Comments:
Hey bro- I was in Fire island this weekend... went to Albatross and walked around ocean beach --felt your presence. I think the hole to china that Bella dug is still there! i have so many memories... so many places we roamed together. miss you as always oxox bean :)
Date: 06/27/00
Name: Joan Robertson
Email: robertson.joan@worldnet.att.net
From: Brooklyn, NY USA
Comments:
I am a client of Joel's mother. Upon reviewing Joel's website, I truly felt the love that was shared among family and friends. Some people will live to be one hundred years old and may never engage in wonderful experiences that Joel had known. I have never met Joel, but his apparent zest for life and beauty of spirit have touched my soul to the quick. May God be with your family.
Date: 06/21/00
Name: Jeannie Spring (D'Agostino)
Email: marcs53@aol.com
From: flushing, ny USA
Comments:
I have visited this site so many times myself and am always moved to tears. I have meant for so long to make an entrybut being way behind the times am just getting up on line myself. I worked at rwp for 12 years and always tell everyone that those were some of the best years with some of the best people. I am an advid greeting card sender. I love to send cards to everyone for all occasions. I always sent Joel holiday cards and birthday cards as I did many people at rwp. But NOBODY ever gave me the response Joel did. He would ALWAYS made such a big deal that I remembered him. You would think what I did. Just a little card..... but that is one of the special things I remember about Joel. Having lost a brother myself almost three years ago in a car accident, I can say in all honesty I know the pain and makes me feel a connection to the Pollacks. I miss my brother everyday as I know Jill & Ricky do but memories are the keeper of the flame. My brother left behind three children who keep him close in our hearts. Joel didn't get the chance to leave a legacy as wonderful as children but this is something else!! Ken, Jackie, Jill & Rick, lots of love to you all.
Date: 06/20/00
Name: Rosemary Furia
Email: rfuria@aol.com
From: Northport, NY USA
Comments:
Jill and Ricky - Sue and I are here in FL with Micki - what a threesome! We did some singing - not bad! Sue is full of stories about your trip to upstate NY Memorial Day weekend. It was so good for all of you...... Love to you from Micki and I - and a special prayer for Joel from us. Love Ro
Date: 05/30/00
Name: todd
Email: todd@jjcramerco.com
From: new york, ny USA
Comments:
Joel, Once again the summer weekends creep by,and I find myself at the phonebooth in Southampton for our weekly talks. I try not to get annoyed by the theives who keep stealing your flowers...because I know you'd tell me that there are so many more important things to focus on in life. Once again, you're right. I continue to live my life better with your lessons in tow...and I encourage everyone who reads this to 'do something Joel' each day. Be nice to a stranger, give your mother a compliment, do a good deed for no reason, put yourself out, tell a funny joke just because, and treat people in your lives (the garage attendent, the woman at the cleaners, et al)with respect. Miss you pal...you live through us all. Toddo
Date: 05/30/00
Name: Jeni (Tendler) Byers
Email: Jeni.Byers@kintetsu.com
From: New York, NY USA
Comments:
I was sitting on my terrace gardening this weekend and just started to cry, I know Joel stopped by for a minute on his way to visit all of us this weekend...Joel, you are always popping into my mind and the minds of my family when we go over old memories, pictures and good times. Jillybean, so good to see you at Rachie's wedding, your amazing!!!! Ricky and Uncle Kenny, we missed you terribly but you were in our hearts. Aunt Sue, your call that weekend to my mom meant so much to her and in fact to all of us, it really is so touching that we can all remaing, no matter how small a part of each others lives.....this is the proof that Joel remains with us...forever....I love you all xxoo Jeni
Date: 05/30/00
Name: Rhoda Peritz
Email: rperitz@lehman.com
From: NY, NY USA
Comments:
Joel, Though I knew you for a brief time; whenever I think back to the truly nice, fun, intelligent and genuine new freinds that I met in the Hamptons I always come back to you. You were always the "great guy" that everyone talked about. Your loss is truly a loss that does not make sense. I am awed and touched by the love displayed on this web site. My thoughts are with your family and close friends who knew you and loved you so much.
Date: 05/28/00
Name: Howie Gelfand
Email: hgelfand@nyc.rr.com
From: Bayside, NY USA
Comments:
2 years have gone by but your never-ending spirit continues to fill these pages with fond memories and love. My heart goes out to the whole family at this very sensitive time, love to all.
Date: 05/24/00
Name: Jill
From: USA
Comments:
I lit a candle for you, i hope you heard my prayers. missing you terribly :(
Date: 05/24/00
Name: Ricky
Email: RJPP1@aol.com
From: USA
Comments:
Why?
Date: 05/23/00
Name: Danny
From: USA
Comments:
I can't believe it's been 2 years! Your always in my thoughts joel, I miss spending our birthday's together.
Date: 05/23/00
Name: Todd Harrison
Email: Todd@JJCramerco.com
From: New York, NY USA
Comments:
Cookie, Thinking about you a lot this time of year, Happy, Happy Birthday. I know how much you love the summer- we have so many memories- I was telling the story of that "best tuesday ever" in fire island- you know which day. Miss you pal- miss running with you, lounging with you, and our long talks above all. All my love...Toddo
Date: 05/22/00
Name: Scott Jaffee
Email: sjaffee@ix.netcom.com
From: New York, NY USA
Comments:
To A GREAT FRIEND, Your birthday is 4 days and I have always been able to call you before you called me. I want you to know that I was thinking of you on May 17, and alway am thinking of you. You are very much missed and loved. Scott
Date: 05/20/00
Name: Lee-Lee (LEORA)
Email: Lucyfan61@aol.com
From: Fresh Meadows, NY USA
Comments:
Hey Joel, Happy Birthday ! Your web site keeps getting better and better. We ALL know who to THANK for that, right? I, as everyone else, miss you very much, Joel. It's very touching to read all the submissions in your guestbook, especially from Jill & Ricky. You are SO loved by family and friends alike. Just wanted to let you know that you are thought of constantly and that you are loved constantly as well. Your friend, forever...Leora
Date: 05/19/00
Name: ira and marianne sacker
Email: sackermd@aol.com
From: jericho, ny USA
Comments:
we spent so little time together--yet we explored a new path in both our lifes--------our spiritual sides. Neither one of us knew this part of the other. In a very short time we shared thoughts, books, movies,music, friendship, passions, fears and LOVE On your birthday ---i feel your soul all around us now. This website is a tribute to just how much you were and are loved. Your message of friendship, respect, joy of life and love contine to inspire everyone who knows you to higher levels. To Us you will always be a special candle in the wind which continues to glow and burn in your honor! To Ken and Jackie We wish you the faith to believe that joel,s passing was not in vain. But a moment of time to reflect on how fortunate we all are to have JOEL in our lives. We love you Joel and you are always in our prayers Marianne and Ira
Date: 05/19/00
Name: jackie pollack
Email: 1jackie@bigplanet.com.
From: Glen Cove, NY USA
Comments:
Happy Birthday Joel: I know your having a big Birthday bash with your angel buddies. My angel Joel. When you passed over Dad and I went to speak with a Rabbi to try to make sense of it all. He told us to light 3 candles every Frighday night, 1st candle for you , then Dad and I that way wer'e in spirit of THREE. I feel your presence ,,as Rick & Jill Happy Birthday, Love forever & a Day. Jackie & Dad
Date: 05/19/00
Name: Scott Sacker
Email: babysnooksscott@netscape.net
From: Santa Fe, NM USA
Comments:
Blessings and Love!
Date: 05/17/00
Name: adam
Email: roc8@aol.com
From: the island, NY USA
Comments:
Hope to see Doug and Gary soon, but the circle not complete without you. Happy 36th Joel!
Date: 05/17/00
Name: Susan Seibel (mom)
Email: suzibell8@aol.com
From: USA
Comments:
to my dear sweet son jOEL..TODAY IS YOUR BIRTHDAY and i miss you so very much my heart is with you every second it beats...it is so very hard to view this web site but it really does make me feel like a part of you is here with us all...i bless the ground Jill and Ricky walk on...they give me the courage to go on....and you my beautiful child , my first born...i love you my darling....mom
Date: 05/17/00
Name: Ricky
Email: Rjpp1@aol.com
From: USA
Comments:
Happy Birthday Joel! I miss you.... Love, Ricky
Date: 05/17/00
Name: Jill
Email: jill@jillpollack.com
From: NYC, NY USA
Comments:
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU, HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR JOEL-THE MOLE-WHO LIVES IN A HOLE-WHO SWIMS IN THE TOILET BOWL (You used to hate when i sang that part) HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOUUUUUUU! love you, miss you - bean :)
Date: 05/09/00
Name: LBH
From: USA
Comments:
To the Pollack and Seibel families, I know you are approaching a very delicate time of the year; so many mixed emotions tied to both Joel's birthday and the anniversary of his death. You are in my prayers, as I wish for you the strength to feel more peace and love than pain and sadness in your hearts. The more you remember the beauty of Joel and the person he was, the stronger his spirit will be, hopefully helping him seem closer to you. Best Wishes Always!!!
Date: 05/02/00
Name: Al Rutsky
Email: alrut@erols.com
From: Roslyn, NY USA
Comments:
Jill: It's been almost two weeks since I logged into Joel's website and it's taken me until now to temper my initial feelings and write. Both Clare and I were much moved after scrolling down your family pictures, reading the descriptions, and then your observations to the court. I could almost sense the pain you felt, that was all the more intense because of the marvelously inseparable closeness you and your brothers shared. I realized there was much to Jill than just that cheerful, ebullient young lady playing 'Barbie doll', with my grand- daughter, Ilana. I'm glad we got to know you and look forward to your coming to many, many more happy occasions. Seeya soon. Al
Date: 04/26/00
Name: Amanda Doran
Email: Adoran@newscorp.com
From: Bronx, NY USA
Comments:
I had an opportunity to spend a weekend w/Joel and I have so much to say. He affected my life and he will never leave my memory. He treated everyone he was with w/such dignity and respect -he was such an honorable person. Even though he met me for only a short time I felt that he really cared for me. I will keep him in my prayers forever. Love, Amanda ttfn
Date: 04/25/00
Name: Stacey (Blumberg) Paradise
Email: sparadise@willkie.com
From: New York, NY USA
Comments:
I was a little slow at work today and decided to finally check out Joel's website. Well, now it is almost 2 hours later and memories of years past have come to mind again. It was dating George Thorogood (one of the EDO's) in high school that gave me the opportunity to know Joel and all his friends. As life goes on and you make knew friends and move on it is hard to remember those from the past. This website is an incredible tribute to a wonderful person and through it, we will never forget Joel.
Date: 04/24/00
Name: shelly block
Email: shellb0317@aol.com
From: middle island, ny USA
Comments:
It's been a few months. Couldn't sleep. Decided to ''visit''. Am touched again at the beautiful words and this incredible tribute to (1) a very special young man who left us much too soon, and (2) the dedication of his unique and incredible family to keep his memory alive. To you, Jill & Rick, a "yasher koach" (I'll be happy to translate next time we meet!!!!!!)
Date: 04/22/00
Name: Ricky (Richard) Joel's bro
Email: rjpp1@aol.com
From: USA
Comments:
Jill (Bean Sprout, Bean, Jilly Bean): I am so so so so so so so so so so LUCKY to have you as my sister. I know I can't fill the void left by our brother. Just keep filling me with your heart and soul. Thank you for always being there for me. I love you more than words can say, Ricky :)
Date: 04/22/00
Name: Ricky (Richard) Joels brother
Email: rjpp1@aol.com
From: USA
Comments:
Hey Bro, Living a 1/2 block away from you on 76th Street for years - here are just a few things that I miss: Calling 5th dimension for a movie and chilling out at my place to watch it. Me rollerblading by your apartment on my way home and calling you from my cell phone to look out your window and watch me pass doing something silly. The conversations would end by you mooning me from your window. Ring and run. Throwing pebbles at your window to annoy you at all times. Working out with me in my building then hitting the hot tub to relax and just rap out. One day we will live a 1/2 block from each other again! Miss you and love you, Ricky
Date: 04/21/00
Name: David Brollier
Email: sonburst@mercurylink.net
From: Huguenot, NY USA
Comments:
I never knew Joel, but had occasion to meet and know his father. If Joel's love for others, consideration, kindness, respectablity is any reflection of his father's then he was truly a shining light in a very dark world. Although I never met him I too shall miss the light that he shed, as he cheered the hearts of all he knew. Thank you Kenny for sending me to this site. May God heal all the many wounds Joel's death caused. May He bless all who knew Joel so that His name, not Joel's will be lifted up. That will be the greatest tribute to Joel. Again, God bless.
Date: 04/18/00
Name: Danny
From: Roslyn, ny USA
Comments:
Joel story, One night when we were all home from college Joel, Gary, Doug and I went to 107 North ( a club on Long Island) needless to say we had a few cocktails, the next thing we know Gary is getting carried out of the bar by a bouncer, Joel was freaking out, Doug and I followed them outside and proceeded to get into a fight with some guys ( Doug and I seemed to always get into trouble) Agian Joel was freaking out at us for fighting, always being the voice of reason, On our way home Joel was yelling at us and Gary was being a wise ass to Joel, not 2 seconds later Joel pulled his car over to kick Gary's ass. I don't think I ever laughed so hard watching Joel go after Gary, especially after he yelled at us for fighting. Just thinking of the time we had makes me laugh, we had such fun, I will never forget those times, I love you and miss you joel!!!!!!!!!
Date: 04/05/00
Name: Scott Rutsky
Email: srutsky@nyc.rr.com
From: New York, NY USA
Comments:
After spending only a short time here you can't help but feel as if you knew Joel and were a part of his life even if, like me, you never actually met him. He clearly was a special person who touched so many lives and meant so much to so many people. The endless outpouring of heartfelt love and support that is shared throughout this site is tremendous. Jill, I can't express to you how touched and awed I am by the wonderful tribute to Joel that you and your family have created.
Date: 03/30/00
Name: Jill (Joel's sis)
Email: jill@jillpollack.com
From: NYC, NY USA
Comments:
I am still absolutely amazed at the response to this site. F.Y.I. we get a count summary every week on how many "hits" this site gets and it averages at 20-40 as opposed to when the benefits are going on (approx. 80-100 hits/week). I am still updating the site constantly with new photos and stories and currently in the process of getting some video and audio files online. I just want you all to know that it is NEVER too late to sign in and NEVER too much to keep doing it. That's why this site is here... to keep Joel's memory alive in ALL of us! He would be so proud and honored. I thank you all from the bottom of my heart for being so supportive and sharing with us all your great memories of Joel. I miss you bro, everyday! oxoxo bean
Date: 03/29/00
Name: Todd
From: New York, NY USA
Comments:
Miss you pal!
Date: 03/22/00
Name: Bonnie Littman
Email: Bgemini67@aol.com
From: N.Y, NY USA
Comments:
It took me a long time to find the right words to say- Joel- you are thought about all the time and missed greatly- this website is the most wonderful, touching tribute - three cheers for Jill and Ricky for holding on and being so strong- the love and support from friends and family just show how special you are- looking forward to future events in your honor- miss you-Bonnie
Date: 03/22/00
Name: Karen (Koretz) Gordon
Email: rgordon@mail.datatone.com
From: Upper Saddle River, NJ USA
Comments:
It has taken me a while to visit this web site but I am very happy I have. This is such a beautiful and wonderful tribute to Joel. Even though I hadn't spoken to Joel in a very long time, this web site reminded me of the smile he always had and the happiness and laughter he brought to those around him. It brought back memories from high school -Actually I think I was in junior high school, ninth grade, when I first met Joel. I believe we first met at Longo's or was it Carvel, or maybe even the "rocks". As commented on by others, I too remember driving in his white car, and I remember "hanging out" at his house. What always struck me as special was that often, at the end of the night, the whole family would "hang out" and you could tell how close they all were. Joel was very special and I feel lucky that he touched my life.
Date: 03/19/00
Name: x
Email: x
From: x, USA
Comments:
miss u like crazy
Date: 03/12/00
Name: June Friedman Levine
Email: dancinq@optonline.net
From: Syosset, NY USA
Comments:
Joel was a caring, loving, and wonderful friend. We shared many special times together, and I miss him! I feel lucky to have had him in my life.
Date: 02/29/00
Name: Todd Harrison
Email: Tah11111@aol.com
From: new york, ny USA
Comments:
Joely, It's unbelievable how you've permeated so many lives and so many paths. I saw Georgie tonight and we spoke of you, and remembered a simpiler time when it just seemed easier. You always had a way of making each moment count and focusing on the good things, the positive things- feeling fortunate for the time and people whose pathes you crossed. Saw Eric the other night. We talked and connected in a way that would have made you smile. "Why can't we just get along?" I haven't written you in more than a month, but I've thought of you each day, and reflected on the importance of your lessons. Ricky wrote a beautiful letter to you, and I think his thoughts are shared by so many more people than you could possibly imagine, in far reaching ways. You taught lessons by your actions, and your soul, and your way. I've never met anybody like you, and feel so fortunate and special to call you my dear friend. I miss you pal. I know your heart is smiling and your spirit abounds. I love you, Toddo.
Date: 02/25/00
Name: Jill (Joel's little sis')
Email: jill@jillpollack.com
From: NYC, USA
Comments:
Just another day without my Joel. G-d how i miss u.
Date: 02/24/00
Name: R
From: USA
Comments:
LSL thanks for the message. xoxo
Date: 02/24/00
Name: Ricky (Joel's brother)
Email: RJPP1@aol.com
From: USA
Comments:
Dear Joel (Big Bro), I know you are watching over me. I feel you on my right shoulder. I try and live my life just like you did: To take advantage of each and every day, don't judge, look at the positive things in people, help others, and smile. The one message that is clear after May 24, 1998 is that we all should try and live life like you Joel. This world would be a much better place. The more time I have to reflect on your soul the more I believe you are so much like Mom. I am so lucky to have had you next to me for 29 years. Your physical presence may be gone for now, but your spiritual presence is with me forever. I know we will be reunited one day, and that day will be filled with an unimaginable joy. I hope I can carry on your legacy and make you proud to be my Big Brother and Guiding Light. I miss you so much and love you with all of my heart! Ricky
Date: 02/01/00
Name: Howie Gelfand 
Email: hsg613@aol.com
From: Bayside, NY USA
Comments:
I find myself visiting this website quite often and not knowing why. I think the amount of love that surrounds this website is it's attraction to all who come. The amount of love put into the creation and consistent work on this website, to the love shared throgh the stories posted by the many visitors is incredible. My heart breaks everytime I see pictures of Joel and imagine all the possibilities and potential that lied ahead of him for certain. This very website is a 24 hour, 7 day a week constant tribute to a person who truly deserves it. I feel a special connection to this website, one that I cannot explain and perhaps choose not to. This website is about one thing and one thing only, LOVE! Joel, you are truly missed!
Date: 01/17/00
Name: Leora Gueron ( "Lee-Lee" ) 
Email: Lucyfan61@aol.com
From: Fresh Meadows, NY USA
Comments:
I have just spent the past hour or so reading all the entries that were made by all of Joel's family and friends. I honestly log onto Joel's Web Page EVERYTIME I go on line. What's true is true...I CANNOT complete a session of logging onto this site without my Kleenex close at hand and without learning something new about Joel. I always notice something new on the site and I KNOW that Jill is the Mastermind behind putting it all together. The outpouring of LOVE, COMPASSION and SUPPORT from friends and family is TRULY a dedication to you, Joel. You were ALWAYS LOVED JOEL and you will ALWAYS BE LOVED by family and friends alike. In a world where people can be so cold and uncaring, it is reassuring to know that you were brought up in a family of caring, sincere, loving people who instilled their values in all 3 children. The bond that your family has together is very special and what's more important than that? The Love, Compasssion and Support that you all have given to others throughout your lives is coming full circle and that is evident in reading all that's in Joel's web site. We ALL, will ALWAYS feel a very strong connection to your family because of the Love you have given to us. Just working with you at RWP made me feel like a part of the Pollack Family from day one. Although I go about my daily routines, there are times where I take a moment and think about Joel in one way or another. I CAN tell you this much...Everytime I go to Temple, I think of Joel. I can't explain the feeling but I always take a moment and think of him, Jill and his whole family and pray that G-D gives them the strength to carry on as Joel wouldn't have it any other way, right? As I think of Joel in Temple, tears always seem to fill up in my eyes and I can see my daughter looking at me with a look of puzzlement in her face. I explained to her that I was thinking of Joel from RWP, where Joel, Jill and I worked and she understood exactly what I was feeling. Jill, I'll address this last message to you, my Soul Sista'...I LOVE YOU from the bottom of my heart, you know that and I know that Joel is giving you and your family the strength to carry on. As far as what you've done with this web site..."Kol Ha- Kavode"...You'll need someone to translate that "Hebrew" BUT I am sure you can figure out its English translation. Love to the Entire Pollack & Seibel Family, Your Friend, Leora
Date: 01/16/00
Name: Steve Goldman
Email: gm@ontariomarriott.com
From: Upland, CA USA
Comments:
Jill, Ricky & Family, I haven't visited the site in a while, it looks great. It's still hard to visit because everytime I want to, I can't believe why I want to... I think about Joel a lot, everytime I hear a related story, everytime I talk about SU, everytime I watch SU on TV or read about the school in the paper, everytime at work we talk about related issues, especially at the hotel. Joel, I miss you. I just looked at all the pictures from Syracuse and our apartment, that couch, the Zebes, and all the memories come back. I've received your invites to the two foundation events and am sorry that I couldn't be at either one. It's hardest being far from friends when you can't be at an event like this. Joel, I miss you. Happy New Year to all, especially Joel. Joel, I miss you.
Date: 01/11/00
Name: Jackie Pollack 
Email: 1jackie@bigplanet.com
From: Glen Cove, NY USA
Comments:
Dear Rick and Jill: I have spent my nights since New Years reflecting on the years past. What had come to mind was 3 years ago when Joel came to Florida on a mini vacation to spend time with dad an me. You know how much I love to get sun, and dad was not feeling like sitting out that day, so Joel and I went to sit at the pool. I remember we had so much fun that day talking about everything from family, friends, religion and life in general. I especially remember Joel bringing tears to my eyes when he was telling me how he felt so close to God, how everything in life was so ment to be, and how he wanted to experience all he could. Then he blew my mind when he told me he was taking flying lessons, I sat there with a blank look on my face , until he explained how he felt when he was high above the clouds, his face lite up like a Christmas Tree. It was then that Joel made me make a promise to him and not tell anyone. That I told him at first was so hard for me because being a parent as you know I come from a protect mode but I will honor you Joel. I will always honor you Joel. Your in my heart, and life everyday. Your my angel. And so so grateful for having all my children in my life. I pray everyday for Joel and God to watch over them. I love you kids.
Date: 01/10/00
Name: Tara Chester-Hehn
Email: wendyeli@aol.com
From: Port Washington, NY USA
Comments:
Dear Rich and family, I met Rich in high school and we were very close. I am deeply sorry for your loss. This website is a great way to keep his memory alive and reminds us everyday how important it is to stay in touch and close to family and friends.
Date: 01/05/00
Name: Lori Hyman
Email: lohy68@earthlink.net
From: New York, NY USA
Comments:
I'm sitting here listening to Alanis Morissette Unplugged - Uninvited is on, which makes me think of the benefit in November. Jill, if it is at all possible, I think you sing it better than she does!! I just wanted to wish you all a very Happy New Year. May your hearts be filled with love and peace always!

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